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Resilience@Work - How to Coach Yourself Into a Thriving Future

Simon T. Bailey

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A practical guide designed to help individuals develop resilience to thrive in both personal and professional spheres. Written in an engaging and accessible style, the book employs a parable involving four characters—Hurry, Worry, Steady, and Ready—who meet at a weekly surfing camp in California. Through their interactions and the Friend-to-Friend Process, they share their struggles and learn valuable lessons about resilience.

"Resilience @ Work: How to Coach Yourself Into a Thriving Future" by Simon T. Bailey is a practical guide designed to help individuals develop resilience to thrive in both personal and professional spheres. Written in an engaging and accessible style, the book employs a parable involving four characters—Hurry, Worry, Steady, and Ready—who meet at a weekly surfing camp in California. Through their interactions and the Friend-to-Friend Process, they share their struggles and learn valuable lessons about resilience. Readers will gain insights into building resilience, managing stress, and achieving personal fulfillment.

The book opens with an introduction to the concept of resilience, emphasizing its significance in today's stress-filled world. Simon T. Bailey shares his journey of seeking wisdom through the book of Proverbs and realizing that wisdom must be paired with resilience to be effective.

The narrative introduces the four main characters, each representing different aspects of resilience:
- Hurry: Constantly chasing opportunities.
- Worry: Overwhelmed by anxiety.
- Steady: Found fulfillment through change.
- Ready: Overcome personal challenges to help others.

A key tool in the book is the Friend-to-Friend Process, developed by J. David Stone and Dr. Larry Keefauver. This process involves asking three reflective questions to help individuals uncover their inner wisdom and develop resilience. Through the characters' personal stories and struggles, readers learn valuable lessons about resilience:
- Hurry: Learns to plan his life.
- Worry: Starts her day with positive expectations.
- Steady: Shares her journey of overcoming trauma.

The book provides actionable insights and steps to help readers apply the lessons of resilience to their own lives. These include:
- Focusing on the present.
- Setting reasonable goals.
- Creating boundaries to protect well-being.

The importance of patience, mindfulness, and adaptability is emphasized, along with the need to take action and seize opportunities.

In the final chapter, the characters experience the thrill of riding big waves, symbolizing their journey towards resilience. They reflect on their progress and look forward to continuing their journey with the support of their new friends.

The epilogue introduces the concept of serendipity, describing how the friends' chance meeting led to profound personal growth and lasting bonds.

"Resilience @ Work" maintains that resilience, paired with wisdom, is crucial for thriving in a chaotic world. The book stands out by using a parable to illustrate its points, making the lessons relatable and engaging. The Friend-to-Friend Process offers a unique, practical tool for developing resilience.

Readers seeking to improve their resilience and manage stress in their personal and professional lives. It is particularly useful for those feeling overwhelmed by modern life's demands and looking for practical strategies to achieve personal fulfillment and professional success.

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